How wrong am I? :(?
Ok I know this isn't right but I need help. This guy that I was with, well we haven't been going out for like 5 or 4 months. Now recently we got back together. He tells me he loves me but I just don't know. I used to be so in love with him but now I love him but I also have a thing for my best guy friend. My best guy friend has been there for me when I was having guy problems. The only problem is I am not sure if my guy friend feels the same, he gives me mix signals. A part of me wants to be with my boyfriend but then the other part wants my friend. Plus I don't even know if he likes me!
Update:The only reason I feel the way I do is because my boyfriend has done some messed up things in the past and I just don't want to get hurt.
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O.K. You pretty much answered your own question. You and your boyfriend are back together, he tells you he loves you buy you just don't know . Why are you back together???? You need time and you should put enough value on yourself to take the time YOU need to find out what it is you really want. I know that you say your "guy friend " gives you mixed feelings but you are the only one that can sort out what you want. Back off from both. Hang out with the girls find out what you want from a guy and don't accept anything less you and you future mate will be glad you took the time. Good Luck to you
When you face the 50/50 emotion prob. always go for the best choice. Here's how it goes.
First off, tell your best guy friend you like him and would love to take the relationship to another level, if he says no say you still want to be friends and hope this doesn't change anything.
Second step, if guy friend said yes ignore this step. If he said no, try getting back with the ex and see if your happy and stuff . If the relationship sucks then dump him.
Step three, if all else fails find a third guy! hehe Plenty of fish in the sea!
so u saying u like ur guy friend more than ur BOYFRIEND. ok now look back in ur 5months relationship with ur bf , have he made u laugh, take care of u, help u wenever u needed help and so on. do u think u can spend ur life with him? u'll get the answer. a flower will never grow up unless u take care of it, same is the relationship. no one is perfect, a lil misunderstanding happens in a relationship and that normal. i wont suggest u to get over ur bf and go out wit that guy friend. well at last ask ur self lol
I won't mess things up with your best friend. You can always date him later. See what happens with your boyfriend. Good luck!
your guy friend is freaked out by your not knowing what you want. you just got back with the ex... he's probably bummed. go with your friend... get rid of the excess baggage.