I like this guy and he likes me, we've made out a few times and i want to be with him but he's not ready to yet, -he got dumped twice in one month- and i've told him i want to be with him and i jst don't know what to doooo. help please?
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Just give him some time, but more importantly be there for him whenever he needs you. Being there will tell him a lot about you and show him that maybe you do really care. Be patient even if it is hard. Good luck!
Give him some time, because as you can see he has a hard time trusting after getting played all those times. Let him warm up to the idea of a woman who will do him right. Show him you'll do him right with your attitude and actions, but in the mean time don't give anymore than you should at this point, until he lightens up on his guard.
The best thing to let a guy know that you won't do that (seeing that he's gone through two hard times in a single month) just try to nurture his spirit back to health. Trust me, he'll grow an attatchment for you easily if you stay in the process. When someone stays in a guys life when his life seems hard to him, he will begin to trust them more and more. I promise.
hes just a little date shy. breakups are difficult, and it can really take a toll on stress levels. hes just not ready so don't push him. comfort him, be there for him. he will learn to trust you with his heart. he will date you when he's ready. dont keep talking about it because he will get more uncomfortable around you and just keep liking him and reminding him that you do. he will come to you in time. the good ones are worth waiting for. good luck!
give him some time if he just got dumped twice in 1 month it takes a little to get over that
he proble likes u and we really appreciate it if ur there for him and dont rush him
give him some time,
just don't become too attached, keep your guard up a little so u can't get hurt..
but try and understand what hes going through, let him know your there.. but just dont get too clingy , guys HAtE that. otherwise, be yourself. ull vbe fine, and hell come around (:
give him a little time im sure he is just nervous. guys are just like us. they worry about rejection, making ALL the first moves, asking the girl out, for her number. all of that stuff. let him know you will be there for him.
I would keep talking to him and make sure he knows how much you like him and want to date him. Soon enough he will want to date you. Just be patient and wait for him to come around(:
hope this helps!!
dang thats the same problem im goin through...he likes me but he dont wanna get together UH...i dont no but just kinda quit flirtin with him and just be friends with him coz its gonna hurt you more if you keep likin him and he aint wantin to go anywhere with it...and if he asks y u actin different say well you dont want me so i quit wantin you.
just give it time if he wants to be with he'll come around he just prolly doesnt wanna get hurt anymore & needs some time to get over it .