guy trouble! help!!!!!?
ok, so i really like this guy, and what happened the other days was my friend went u[ tp him and asked what he thought about me and he said he thought i was pretty cute. so she said do you see yourself dating her and he said yeah maybe and once she told him i liked him he started blushing really bad and then she told him to ask me out and he said he'll do it tommorow. so tommorow comes around and he told her that hes not gonna ask me out till he knows me better but he wont take the time to talk to me :/
so i dont know what to do, im thinking hes shy, but im really shy to talk to him
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Well when you're both shy, it's definitely not going to work, lol.
You need to talk to him. It's that simple. I'm the same way, I don't like to ask anyone out without knowing them better than just the cute girl who sits behind me in math, and one of the things I look for is if the girl i might be interested in takes an initiative with me as well as I with her. When he realizes that he can be comfortable around you, he'll probably be a lot more likely to ask you out.
This friend of yours, is he a mutual friend? If he/she is, one good way to start talking would be for the two of you to "accidentally" run into him somewhere, your friend say "hey, whoever," and invite him into the conversation. The you start to talk with him as well. The just take it from there!
Good Luck!
it's probably a combination of him being shy and afraid...i used to be the same way...my junior year of high school i like this girl in my 2nd period class...i later found out she like me too...she wanted to date me and i wanted to date her but i was too shy to ask her out...i was also afraid of rejection....even though i knew she liked me i was still afraid...i don't know why...the best thing to do is just go for it...sometimes that's what ya have to do....
u should give him just a few more days to find a good oppurtunity to talk to him, and if he still doesnt talk to him, find the courage to talk to him- that strength lies in every person. remember to be patient, but at the sametime, keep your relationship in progress.
just start a conversation you both know that you like each other so either way its going to be awkward between you too..
you know he likes you!! youve got nothing to worry about! be brave make the first move!!