Well this is a bit of a long story. There's this guy, just one year younger than me, and it all started on facebook.
I was having a really bad night as it was. My ex-boyfriend was texting me being an ***, bringing me down. I was all upset and crying. Then i got a friend request from, let's say, BOB. So i saw we had mutual friends, and he actually was going to be in my school this year. The high school. I added him. A minute later he messages me saying something like "Hi. c: I don't mean to be a creep or disturb you, but i just wanted to let you know that i think you're beautiful."
Ever since then we've been talking. We are so alike, and he is honestly the sweetest guy i have ever met. He is a sweet heart to everyone. Even people he barely knows. He always tries and cheers people up, and he always has a little smile at the end of everything he says. We have the same sense of humor, and we can talk seriously too. He always tells me i'm pretty, and beautiful, and that he wants to hang out with me, i have gorgeous eyes. He says thing to make me fall for him. And it's working. I'm really falling for him, a whole lot. It's out of my control. But the thing is, he is sweet to other girls too, and asks them to text him and stuff and hang out. Maybe he's just outgoing and friendly with them? I'm not sure. But i want to know why he would sweet talk me if he doesn't like me that way. Part of me is telling me he really likes me, the other part is saying, he just wants to be friends. Don't get me wrong, he's a sweet guy and he's been through a lot of crap. He tries to be nice to people. But i just can't help but feel a connection. It's so strong. And recently he just said he loves me. He always sends me hearts. Do you think he likes me? Out of all the other girls he may talk to? I feel as if i'm just another girl to him, nothing special. I want to be so much more than that though. And he isn't close to a player. He would never mean to lead someone on if he didn't like them. Never. He is so completely different.
Update:He isn't the player type. He is a down to earth guy. I have never met anyone as sweet. He never speaks anything wrong or mean, and he isn't using me. He always asks me to send him a picture of my face because he says i'm beautiful.
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Well I guess your best bet is to be honest with him and tell him how you feel. And one important thing to remember: Dont ask him if he likes you. You will be able to tell from his reaction. Be prepared for him to say like "No, I dont like you like that", because like you said he might not mean to lead people on. So just tell him and be prepared for his reaction, because hey you never know, he might like you back. oh and one more thing: If he tells you he likes you then i would bring up how you feel about him acting the same way with the other girls. No matter what you may look like, a genuine guy finds girls the most attractive when they are honest, confident, and raw (not fake). I hope I helped. good luck :)
Lol. Obviously he likes you. Unless hes just a crazy super player the fact that he said he loves you means hes way into you. Most guys (myself) wont say that **** until you are in a serious relationship. So, either he is a super player and hes telling this **** to other girls and hes just trying to get it in or hes way into you.
Honestly, only way to know for sure is to hangout with him in person and get to know each other... I've learned that you have to build trust in person. That way you learn them. Like you can tell if they're lying about something, by their actions and eye movements and what not. Sounds confusing... Good luck though. (:
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Sounds like you answered your own question. He would never lead a girl on if he were not interested, so , given that he is leading you on, it follows that he wants to be with you.
Alyson,
Nice guys are a rare thing. If you are interested grab him off the market. Come on now don't wait. I can not tell you more simply. : ) Good luck
Oh and Hi Dana.
the best thing to do is ask him. there is a chance that he might really like you. he may not even notice that he is so nice and such to other girls. if u bring it to his attention tho he may see it. remember you miss 100% of the chances you dont take. so ask yourself is it worth a try?
Man he sounds like the perfect boy! Just be friends for now and see if it turns into anything :)