Guy trouble, 8th grade?
I really like this guy but my best friend likes him to. He is cute, funny, nice, and into theatre. She always flirts with him, and I try to also (but i'm a little bit shy).
Also, whenever i'm around her she will start talking about him to her other friends and it makes me jealous and annoyed and embarrassed.
AND: the guy we like's best friend knows that my friend likes him and is trying to set them up. all the time The thing is, he doesn't know that I like his friend too.
THe guy I like and his friend are really nice to.
What do I do??????
Please don't tell me to just let it go or that we should just stop liking him. I've tried. Didn't exactly work
Also, I keep finding out that my friend goes and does stuff with him behind my back. AKA: I was going to one art room in the school at the end of the day to finish up some extra credit. I saw her and him talking to each other and walking down to the art room. When I asked her later she said that she needed to make some more prints and had asked him to come. I know for a fact that she didn't need to make prints and if she wanted more we were going to have another 80 minutes to do it next class
Update:how do I ask him out? I haven't asked anyone out before
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first, u need 2 tlk 2 him more!! don't be shy and be urself around him. find something in common w/ him. guys like girls that no sports stuff, but not 2 much. ask him to hang out sometime. u shud be brave and ask him out! DONT BE SHY! guys dont like shyness. ask him 2 go to a movie or something and say u had a really fun time and u shud do it more. after a while he may ask u out!
You can;t just stop liking someone. Does your friend know that you like him?
Honestly, he is probably going to end up with her because he may feel more of a connection with her with the time they spend together, which i know is something you may not want to hear. This is hard to take in, but your best bet it to fall back and let your friend and him be together. You will always probably be jealous, but that's natural. Just let them be together and try to focus one another guy. It will be hard, but help you to not focus on them. Good luck.
Being in just 8th grade, too young to be in relationship. If you like him, check first if he likes you in the same way or he is more attached with your friend or just doing time pass with her. Then, only take your first steps if find positive signal then move forwards later on when you a little bit mature and go ahead in life.
If you more emotionally attached this time more than friendships and it didn't work then you only suffer here. so, be careful.
God bless you!
I honestly don't know what to tell you. One of you are going to end up hurt, and something tells me that if you get the guy, you'll lose your "Best" friend. Once you can make the choice between friendship and love, then you can concentrate on how to fight over the guy you love, although I don't think fighting is a good idea...
you could try letting go but if that dosent work compare this who do you like more your friend or that guy I dont know your friend so there is a possibility you could have them both im just going off of what I know so the thing is just try to be yourself and if he dosent act like he likes you than your friend can have him because another guy will come along who is just right for you.
I think you should just bece friends with this guy and then slowly advance the whatyou do together and then make a very bold move like lean into kiss him guys love it when girls make moves Im a guy I would know!
same exact thing happened to me last year when i was in 8th grade, hun im sorry but it's really not worth it, my friend ended up getting him and he was a total a hole, and by the end of the year i had a really amazing guy who im still with today
i know its how hard it is to forget about him but you really are better off
8th grade guy trouble. Such in a hurry to grow up!
Why dont u too talk to him..if u dont wanna stop liking him...let ur frnd do that ;)
break thru their convo...make fun of ur frnd infront of him and just spoil her image to him. if he gets impressed to u...u can go out!
does your best friend know u like him too? if so, she would respect that you like him too and let you an opportunity to be with him because if she's ur real friend, she should let u too.