If you really feel afraid then I would pray about things and search your heart. You may be very surprised and she would probably say yes! If you never ask you'll never know. Maybe it would be best if you text her and tell her you will always want to be her friend no matter what, but you have one question and then ask her. Tell her that she makes you smile and she brightens up your day! Tell her that you were afraid to ask and you pray she doesn't hate you if her answer is no. Tell her you'll understand either way! But, Pray about it first.

Well, i am overweight too and have been in the same position b4. I am girl though. If she is your friend she wont care about weight. It is the thought and personality that counts. If you talk and chat and like her that much talk and lure her into the thought and then shoot!

Just ask her anyway. There is a chance that she could say yes, and if she was a true friend she would still be friends with you even if she said no. So ask her

well, being friends is probably going to be waaay more fun that trying to start a relationship. also, if your having trouble with weight start working out a little every day, and just make healthier eating choices. ho

take a chance(:

it doesnt hurt to try

and it might not ruin your friendship if she doesnt like you back

some of my best guy friends like me

but it kinda depends on the girl

because some of my friends are friends with people after they tell them they like them

but you should seriously take a chance(:

ouch,... try working out a little.. but keep the good friendship going.. once you think your in a good shape.. and she might even complement u,.. w8 a while after that... then ask her

You'll never know until you ask.

Take the chance otherwise you'll forever wonder and possibly regret not trying.

keep in contact with her

it might be too eaarly top ask her out

Maybe ask her if she'll like to hang out sometime?

:]

same problem here bud. take her on a "date" without telling her. worked for me.