Daddy/Little Girl fetish?
I have one. Trying to lesson it by finding a way to achieve what it is that I'm subconsciously trying to get from the kink. The thing is the Daddy/Little Girl thing usually has alot to do with submission...but I'm missing that part. I actually can't stand being told what to do. I like being young and innocent though and I like having an "older authority figure" touch me who shouldn't. Like they can't help it even though it's bad they have to touch me, and then also the combination of my innocence/dirtiness...ect. That for me is the turn on. I don't like the controlling stuff. Anyone want to offer up any possible psychological wisdom or advice or analysis?
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The range of “normal” behavior is large. Behavior only becomes abnormal (or a mental disorder like sadism or masochism) when a subconscious motivator for behavior (a compulsion not chosen, as opposed to a chosen course of action) seriously disrupts one’s life through distress and impaired functioning. If the distress you feel is adversely affecting your life, you could be helped through psychological counseling. Some forms of psychological counseling rely on behavior changes rather than exploring the reasons for the behavior; as with phobias, where sometimes treatment consists of gradual desensitization. Most people can identify their own problems, although they lack the ability to follow-through with changing themselves.
A therapist cannot provide a cure, but they can guide one to understand their subconscious thoughts that may be controlling their behavior, or provide alternate behaviors to reprogram your brain (cognitive behavioral therapy), and a psychiatrist may provide drugs to combat a possible chemical imbalance.
Adverse behavior may begin with a thought that becomes a recurrent fantasy, then it becomes an obsession leading to experimental behavior when an opportunity is experienced, and that behavior becomes more and more in evidence, eventually becoming habit. Adverse behavior that is not interrupted by some intervention (public or private confrontation as to the destructive nature of the behavior) can come to control one's life. In effect the brain is gradually programmed to become controlled by the obsession to commit the behavior.
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