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So be yourself around all guys. You don't want a guy to fall for someone that you aren't, because when the real you comes out later on, they aren't going to like you.

I agree with the first answer, but I'll add my part too! It seems you have difficulty being yourself around the guys you like, right? Well, I'd give you the old "imagine them in their underwear" tip, but that would totally embarress me, so I don't know if it would work for you, hehe. So, a real tip for being the person you really are is this: 1-Tell yourself you're confident, and being dorky and saying what's on your mind is what guys seem to like in you. 2-Inhale, exhale, look at a cute guy you like and tell him the first thing on your mind. 3. The guy probably thinks you're a dork now because you said the first thing on your mind, which is bound to be something crazy because, well, you were looking at a cute guy!! 4. Don't get embarressed at whatever the upcoming comment is that he makes, just laugh it off like you meant to say that (which in actuality, you did) and then start a conversation about whatever you said. Or something other than the weather that's interesting to the boy. You could also start out with something he likes, maybe sports or something. Ask him a simple question and he'll give you his life story (I know from experience, my doctors are talkative, haha), so be prepared to listen.

I think my few steps were a little crazy, but they're how I learned to talk to my boyfriend for the first time. I was painfully shy and it was hard to talk to him, so I did something like what I said above and it worked out just fine! So good luck!

P.S. I don't understand boy troubles like yours exactly, not meaning to be offensive with that comment though. What I mean is, if you're content and at ease with other boys, what makes the cuter ones that you have a crush on different? In reality, boy's are all the same, whether they're short or tall, they're all the same.

Hi, otay wad eva u sae,

What's going on is that your nervous. The next time this happens relax and think of the guy you want to get to know better as someone that you've known for a long time. (This works!) Think of him as one of the other guys that you are friends with.

If there is a lot of dead silence he's not into you (it's usally not a good signal) Ask him things he likes to do or likes in general. Guys like it when you pick thier brain. lol :-) I hope this helps.

Sincerely,

Buster

Yah I have the same problem! every guy i am myself with and just want to be friends always ends up with feelings for me. But when I am around other guys I try to act the same way I do with my friends. Even though it is a bit harder it helps alot.

the weather r u serious i saw a movie where a reatrded man askd a hoy model about the weather is that all u can *** up with. haha if they like u they might feel nervous too so try to act normal.

my bff has the same problem...try finding a guy you like that you are comfortable arund.. look past his attractiveness and look at his personality.. try to imagine him as a freind... maybe then he'll accept you for YOU without all the nervous stuff

just try being you around everyone, too.. i used to be like you, and people called me wannbes.. then i just gave up on being something imnot and the majority of the people like me now lol

you have to learn how to not be nervous around the guy you like. i know it's hard but just think how nervous he must be talking to you. he's just another human like me and you. if you take a deep breath and stop worrying so much thoughts will flow to your brain and you will know what to talk about.

Relax and be yourself around everyone. Just pretending to be someone your not around others sets you up for failure. Obviously the person that you are is someone boys find attractive, so be that person!

relaxx. bc its just a boy i mean of coarse their hot and all but their humans like you. try being yourself bc obviously you must be pretty great if all those boys like you. so act natural and stop trying too hard! good. lucck!

just be yourslef around the cute guys and thats what will happen lke what happened with the not so cute guys.