Hello my Name is Daniel , Now before you say anything please just focus on the question and not anything else as this is what i chose i just need answers to this questions.
Now, Iam 15 year old Sophomore at Highschool (please no your too young statements, just focus on question please) who started his first year as a sophomore so im like a freshman but more of Frosh. Anyways, i've been there for a long time then came across this girl who i recently met. When i met her she was really energetic, happy , and would make me smile . I eventually got the chance to talk to her, me and her already got along so well. To me this girl was someone who is like me.
1. She cares about her grades
2. She cares for community service
3. Shes happy and energetic of course
4. Cute and funny
5. Tennis player on schools tennis team
6. Cares for family
This girl is my definition of awesome and i would like her as my girlfriend 100% but the problem is, i don't how to start. I'm not very good with social skills nor flirts and would really commit to her as possible. I sound crazy yes. And thats the funny part too. Please help me guys, it be nice if you give me details and examples to follow for me to win her heart. Thank you.
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Be yourself. Be nice, be polite and when you have a chance to talk to her you'll have plenty to talk about because you have common interests. Do you eat lunch at the same time? If you do, sit with her at lunch where the two of you can talk. You can start out talking about really generic subjects if that's easier for you; like the weather. Tell her about your favorite class or teacher and then ask her if she has had that teacher and what she thinks of him/her. Does she have any classes with you? You can suggest that the two of you get together sometime to study. Does she like movies? Invite her over to your place to watch a dvd and munch on some popcorn. Is the weather nice where you are? Ask her if she wants to go to the park with you on Saturday. Ask her how tennis game is going.
Basically, once you know what her interests are, all you have to do is ask her about them.
So, you can do something like "You're on the tennis team right? How long have you played tennis?" She answers you-then dead silence - You: "I've never played tennis much. How long did it take you to get good at it?" She answers - then dead silence - You: I've mostly played (whatever) - or I've never played a lot of sports, but when I was a kid I used to love to (whatever).
Now, if there are no dead silences, then just let her talk and tell you a little about whatever you've asked her.
So, you want to show a little interest in her and give her time to respond. Then, you can say, "Here, why don't we exchange numbers. I'd love to give you a call sometime". Just kind of fit it in somewhere.
You'll be fine once you start talking. She will enjoy the attention, think you are charming and then...who knows?
Just be friends as you are - sounds like things are moving in the right direction. Have you ever heard the saying, "If it works don't fix it"? Well the friendship is building just as it should. Be attentive to her and don't let her walk on you or take advantage of your kindness or she will not respect you.
Give her an origami dollar bill ring that you fold right in front of her. Those are awesome-look up how to make one. If she wears it with pride, then its ON!
Be yourself. Be nice to her. Compliment her. Let her know that she's special to you. You don't need all that flashy "winning her heart" nonsense; relationships that start that way tend to end in disaster. Be her friend first (and don't be afraid of the friendzone -- only douchebags end up in the friendzone anyways), and then let her know that she means more. If she likes you, she'll go out with you. If not, then move on. But trying to be something you're not in order to get her to like you isn't the way to go about it.
Just be the caring individual I feel you are. Ask her out to a movie. I am sure you can think of something to impress her. Make her feel important
Talk to her friends and find out more about her. Learn about tennis so you can talk about her passions. People will talk forevor about subjects they like. Volunteer at places she volunteers at so you can be close to her. Find out what you have to offer her and offer it. You need to bring something to the table in order to "get her to like you" - common lists of things women like are .....money, status, talent, success, humor.