Ok so I met this guy camping and we flirted A LOT and I really liked him. Then we played Truth or dare in this abandoned camper with like broken glass....and old clothes....and it smelled like pot but thats a different story..... and like we flirted more and then he texted me if i wanna hang out with him and i told him i couldnt because i had to go mini golfing and he was like oh nevermind.....so then when we got back to the campground i was like ok we re back lets hang out and he was like kay ....but he brought these two girls with him and he was flirting with her and then we didnt hug or anything goodbye when we left the campground for good....but i really like him like a lot and even though we ve been apart i still like him and i cant find another guy like him and everytime i try to text him he never texts back and i friended him on facebook and he never accepted.....i feel awful though that he was flirting with those girls....but he was so hot and im never gonna find another guy like him....i miss him a lot....and i missed him so much i got myself drunk and blacked out....but when i was with him i was totally different ...i wasnt a goody two shoes...i drank and smoked and did things ive never done before or i never even thought of doing and i like it he really changed me and the way i think...im failing out of school right now and i dont give a **** .....i just really like him and miss him ...and what should i do? cause im never ever gonna see him again...sorry for this whole paragraph ..i just need help im so confused
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You need to realize one thing.
Education is way more important than any guy. So you really need to find a way to focus.
You say you wont find someone like him now, but the truth is you'll find someone better.
This guy isn't giving you the time of day.. he can't even answer a simple text message or accept your friend request.. so move on. You have no one to blame for your heartache now, other than yourself. You let your guard down way to fast, but I guess you live and you learn!
And you are really going to fall for a guy that got you into smoking and drinking?! That's nothing to be proud of sweetie, sorry to say! I would say you had your head on a little straighter before you met this loser! Get back on the right track, and meet a guy that likes you for you! Never settle for less than you deserve my dear!
Your Failing School Over A Guy?
Come On Now, Thats Stupid.
Theres Waay More Guys Out There For You.
You Make It Seem Like Its The End Of The World.
Its Just A Guy.
Get Over Him, &&Find Someone New.
I am so sorry Sweet Pea but you are ruining your life over a nobody. If he was a CONSIDERATE person or even a friend to you, he wouldnt even accept a request on facebook. I know that it doesnt feel awesome when you care about or miss someone that doesnt feel the same but by ignoring you he's pretty much yelling that he wants nothing to do with you. Its not easy and yes, you will think of him fondly but someone else will make your heart flutter. Maybe you wont meet him tomorrow, but you'll definately meet someone quality once you clean your act up, drinking like that is just not cute.
more than likely he knows what hes doing to you and is trying to get you where he wants you forget him have fun if he sees ur out having fun doing well without him he will get curious and will want to be around you more often your young and im not trying to encourage you do everything above but your at the time in your life where if you make a mistake its somewhat ok try to stay away from anything illegal and get ur grades back up in school im still paying for letting a guy get in the middle of my school and friends and now have a 4 year old son at the age of 21 just be young and stupid without him. trust you will find someone else
Fixation is like that- it owns you. But, face reality- You did not know him long enough to really get this hung. what you have is a fantasy. The more you think about him the more you will think about him. Quit it! Get out with your regular friends, meet other people and get on with your life. Believe me, there are otehr "fish" in the sea. You'll quickly meet another guy, probably even better- and then you'll forget all about this one-time Romeo.
You were obviously not that important to him and you don't have to work that hard when you meet a "keeper." A keeper will take you for who you are and even pursue you. Unless you just want a meaningless relationship that won't go anywhere...w/ a guy who doesn't really care about you, keep on texting him.
i think you should text him on how you feel about the situation and ask what happened even know he doesn't answer cause he is still receiving that text message. I think you should maybe wait a while and refriend him, after that just stop. (that's what i did anyway) i think he got mad cause you rather hang out with your friends and not him so he found his own party.
I'll put it straight - you didn't mean anything to him. You went camping, you flirted while you were on holiday, then you left, and that was that. He doesn't know you, and likely will never meet you again, so has moved on, and so should you.
yep
he got you on your way to "growing up quick" didnt he. lol
its just a swift way to become a woman
youre being very honest here and I'll tell you what to do
learn to find out what you want.. do you want a good man for your future.. orrrrr..... do you want to be alone? If you want him, you're gonna be alone. If you want a man............ Woman-Up and start lookin'. Boys are everywhere
Maybe since you said you were busy he took that as a rejection all together. Give it time and maybe he'll respond to his texts, or even text you first.