WAY CONFUSED. ok people bare with me please. There is this girl i went to high school with. just about 2-2 1/2 weeks ago i became pretty interested in her. she works at a local resturant and we go to the same college. i work at a local grocery store. ive gone to her resurant a few times and have said hi hows it going type thing. and vice a versa with her coming into the store i work at. i saw tht she was on facebook so i started talking with her. to try to make a long story shorter i got her number and asked to catchup sometime, to have lunch. she said yes that would be cool. i saw her again at the store and i asked again and she said ya let me know when. SO heres the wierd part so bare with me. so text her a few times to see whats up and first she says shes too busy one week. then she doesnt reply to a few texts or facebook messages. then i straight up ask what she was doing on labor day, and she said two words via text, 'i work'. now i havent seen her since but shes always on my mind and im kinda nuts about it. also she broke up with a guy about almost 3 months ago. so tht throws in a money wrench. she was with him for almost 3 years. yes i know 3 yrs is alot.i also told her since shes so busy that she could let me know a good day to have lunch or whatever. no reply but im still 'in the fog' cuz whenever i saw her or anything she always had a big smile on so im a little confused. shes apparently somewhat shy. but i know she is not a bull sh*tter, or bad person. shes sweet and i like her. looking for advice cuz i havent really been in a relationship before. thanks.
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Well, you story is quite touching . If I well you I would simple let this Girl go but it won't hurt if you let her know how you feel about her . Who know she might just be waiting for you to make the 1st move .
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I think she probably might have been interested, or thought you were just being friendly. But then you got a bit pushy and scared her off. Sounds like she may also be busy with work - she might not be over her ex yet, and one of the things people do to get over people is to throw themselves into their work and make themselves really busy so that they don't have to think about it.
Don't send her any more texts and then in a few weeks pop to her restaurant and say hi just like you used to do before you asked her out for lunch etc. Make it clear that you want to just be friends. Perhaps something will come of this friendship eventually when you both get to know each other better.
Good luck!
Mmmm tuff beans mate, my advice is to still peruse her if you want but understand she may not be interested. But that doesn't mean she doesn't like you it just means you have to make he like you. I'd say keep things at good terms dont act too desperate, but still let her know you want her. Some girls like the whole "every guy wants me so im gonna play hard to get" but id say just keep doin what your doin.
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Just ask her if she's avoiding you or something. And if she's changed her mind and doesn't want to go out with you, take it like a man.
try to tell her you fall in relationship.