My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago and I'm over her, but now I like somebody else, but I'm not very good at flirting, and I have low self-esteem. How do I flirt with, then ask out, a girl.
Update:I'm in seventh grade
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ok this is the cutest thing ever :)
unless I remember seventh grade wrong, she will be so happy you ask her out.
just make sure you get to her.
honestly, you should get to be her friend first.
focus on this for a week or two, long enough to get to know her
but not so long she thinks you want to be "just friends"
then you coukd ask her casually to do something as friends.
maybe have a group come too.
something like
"hey, me and a group of friends are going to the movies this friday and it would be awesome if you could come."
you guys will start feeling more comfortable around eachother, and it should come naturally :)
this will help if your not so confident to do those toal, in-your-face i think your sexy flirting things.
because believe me.
i'm not either.
and it;s the cutest thing ever if a guy is a little shy to ask us out.
it shows he is actually really interested.
:D
hope this helped, and i'm sure it'll work out
well this may sound harsh but stop feeling sorry for yourself. having confidence is a big part of flirting. try visualizing yourself and pin point the things you like about your self and stop concentrating on things you dislike. if you dont feel comfortable with flirting just come right out and tell the girl you like her( we appreciate when guys do that) and ask her out. sure being rejected hurts but thats only one possible solution. who knows she could be ur next gf if u just take a chance.
well first of all you have to be confident within yourself girls dig a guy who fells good about themselves and if you get rejected then oh well on to the next. You have to know how to talk to girls which is not easy instead of always complementing women on how cute they are talk about something that will shock the hell out of them to make them think wow this guy is cool he's on another level. This is directed to all guys not just yourself LOL
think about her and the things that she likes. think about a way that you can connect with her, maybe through a common interest. work on ways to improve your own self esteem through hobbies, sports, schoolwork, whatever you find interesting
Great Question.
Compliment her on thing she's wearing. touch her necklace and admire it and don't forget to rub your finger on her neck when you lift the necklace. If she is interested she will make small talks to give you clue that she is interested. good Luck Bro.
at your age what have you got to lose? Your parents probably arnt going to let you go out on a "date" anyway. Guys your age like to pick on girls (least thats what I remember)
recreate what you did to get your previous GF, and if that doesnt work, just loosen up and start talking about anything, and I mean anything that gets them talking about themselves and go from there, above all else be your self, cliche' yet true
trust me it will work
Study harder. Feel better about yourself before you bring someone else into your mess.