Girl trouble!!!!???
Ok so there is this girl that is in a bunch of my classes.
We talk a lot online and we walk to and from some classes together.
We also text eachother a lot.
We have known eachother since middle school.
I have always kind of wanted to go out with her but i wasn't sure what she would say back, but she always smiles at me in class and sits on my desk before class.
I really have no idea what to do in this situation so any advice can help?? preferable from a girl
there are like 3 girls that i really like right now and another that i am not sure about, but she is the only one that i could really see myself being with in a good relationship because i know her so well and she is really nice and cute
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Well, since you're friends, you can just speak your mind.
Let her know you'd like to "kick it up a notch", take your friendship to a deeper level and have a date. Ask straight out, "how do you feel about that?" Then, finally, the ball is in her court.
Best wishes.
I text a lot of guys, but I mean just as friends, but the fact that she sits on your desk before class... that is a sure sign. And sounds like she is always making sure to get your attention by smiling at you...
Unless she a complete flirt and just likes to play guys. But I'm guessing since you know her so well, you would know if she was or not. (But I would evaluate and think of the way she acts around all guys, and see if she is just like that. I know some girls that are just really flirty that way, some who know they're doing it, some who don't)
If you know she's not like that, I would definitely ask her out, sounds like she's just waiting for you to make the first move.... I wouldn't wait any longer, she may get annoyed and think you don't like her or are just playing her.
I wouldn't be too worried, I mean, if by some slim chance she doesn't like you, it's better to get slapped in the face, (figuratively speaking) than never have a chance at something great. I hope this helps!!!
Come on. She is right there waiting for you to make a move. You know her for so long and you even text each other so next time you see her ask her out. Good luck
I am sure if you are friends, she feels the same, so maybe if you can just ask her if she wants to go out with you, but don't let anybody else do it for you, cause there is no reason to be shy if you 2 are friends. Hope I helped.
Hmmm.... Difficult she might like you, but maybe she just thinks of you as a really good friend. You should really go up to her and ask her of her feelings of you. It might be a little embarrassing but If you like the girl you will do it.
You should try it.
GOOD LUCK!!! :)
Well go for it then. Tell her how you feel maybe indistinctly. Like maybe throwing a few compliments her way and seeing if you get some back. Inviting her places to hang out and see if she comes then flat out tell how you feel about her.
then ask her out, before someone else sees how great she is, and is taken..... i suggest that u get over the other girls, that way u can focus completely on her.
i think that if someone in a relationship likes another person more than friends, they might as well be cheating on their bf/gf....... but that is my opinion
i would ask her out. it sounds like she feels the same way about u. the only way you're going to find out is if u ask her, and if she doesn't work out, u got those other 3 to fall back on...
You talk a lot on lone and even in classes, so why are you asking us here what you should do. Ask her.
so ask her out!
say something like, i really wanna see [movie name], would you like to go with me this [friday/saturday/whatever]?
or
text her saying, you wanna grab lunch tomorrow/
im bored, you wanna go get some ice cream?