yeah my girl and i have been goin out for almost a year it will be a year in like a week then all of a sudden she comes out of nowhere yesterday and says she wants to break up and says its her not me that i do everything she could ever dream of and more and she is glad that i let her do really whatever she wants then today she says that she is mad at me and says it is over what the hell is this all about and what should i do i love her to death and she says she loves me more than anyone else. i really dont want it to end any advice is welcome on what to do or what is going through her mind thanks everyone.
Update:trust me i know she is not cheating some well trusted mutual freinds are with her if she did somethin and didnt tell me i would know about it thats why i have no problems plus she has always proven herself trustworthy thats why this makes no sense to me
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you might not want it to end but you aren't the only one that has to make that decision. She sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants so maybe its a good idea to give her space. If its meant to be it will even if its 3 - 10 years down the road.
Just let her go. That is what she has asked you to do. You can't force her to stay with you and you can't trick her into staying with you. She has to come to that decision on your own and if you give her enough space she'll either find somebody new or start to miss what you gave her.
Also maybe talk to her friends about what is going on with her,.
typically before a relationship ends there are signs, perhaps because you are so in love and felt the relationship was going so good you didnt notice the signs...but believe me THEY WERE THERE. Now what might have seemed sudden to you might have been a long time coming for her, i think what you need to do is give her time. At this moment calling her and attempting to stay in contact would not be the best choice.....let her go and do her thing, in time you will eventually move on, and im sure she will realize what she lost. It might seem hard right now but you CAN move on.
I hate to be mean but she is either over you or testing you. She may be immature and she just is testing to see how upset you'd get without her. But then again she could be over you.It's really hard to say. What I think is that you should just move on. She's not the only girl out there and you will find someone who appreciates you more:) Good luck;)
i think she has met someone else and wants a more controlled life, women are scared of good guys for some reason, it took me a while to realize that the good ones are hard to find and i have been in a terrible relationship at 1 time, controlling, telling me who were and weren't my friends, where i could and couldn't go. i mean it was where i couldn't wear makeup, my point is young girls are scared of the real thing, and go to the guys that are more of the rough and tough type guys, thats what she wants, not what she needs, believe me she will want you back, but it's up to you to (tell her NO, you hurt me ,left me,and now you want me ), tell her she had her chance to go "F" herself. she deserves nothing but what she gets.
hii i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years and we've definitely had our ups and downs. i know i've been confused and yelled at him and made him feel like crap because of how i feel not anything that he's done.. try talking to her that's really all you can do..
don't keep her on a leash.. it will push her further and further away.. you have to give her space and if she feels the need to break up let her to try and force anything that isn't going happen
you don't own her
Sounds like she is confused and immature.
Do you really need someone to play with your head and feelings, just go with the flow and accept being friends if this is what she want's...you have to respect her wishes no matter how much it will hurt you (you'll get over it).
Maybe she's playing games with you or is jealous about something and trying to make you sweat it. My ex tried to get me to marry her by reading a book called "The Rules" and played lots of head games. I found the book in her panty drawer. Haha.
trouble in the bedroom? jk jk
you should watch your girl, sort of keep her on a leash because most likely she has found another guy, and she wants change in the relationship because there is no limit to what women want.
Dont bug her, Let her be. Sounds like she got stuff to work out on her own. She will call you just give it time. Let her have her space. Its hard to do. If you call her and ask her it will drive her farther away.
YOU are doing something wrong.....It could be being smelly, looking bad, getting annoying, or maybe she just doesn't like you any more. You should ask her and if she won't tell you...ask one of her friends...but remember ALWAYS STAY STRONG AND NEVER BACK DOWN FROM YOUR ANSWER!
-hope this helps-