So I have this friend. She has been my best friend since... I really don't remember but a very long time and lately I guess I've been somewhat depressed, angry, and very negitive. She always gets so mad at me when I make a comment or say somthing mean about someoneand I guess she just really ignores me. Slowly I can see our friendship falling apart, shes starting to hang out with different people and really dosen't call me anymore even if I make an effort. I really don't think she should be acting this way since i'm going through a hard time and if she can't understand that and except me for who I am I guess we shouldn't be friends? I know sometimes I get very jealouse because she hangs out with other people and I act like a *****. Recently i have gotten medication and it has helped somewhat. I've tried to change but, I dont want to act like a person who I'm really not just so she'll be my friend. I dont know if I should try to keep this friendship going or its not even worth my time
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Sit down and talk with your friend and lay it all out there. She amy not know why you perceive things differently and you may not understand her issues. It may be that you grew apart but you won't know until you speak with her.
If it's already known you're going thru a hard time, then maybe the person just feels bad because she doesn't know how to help... thus the distance.
You'll make other friends.
Hang in there & keep on pluggin'.
Its difficult making friends & very easy loosing a friend. If you value your friendship, please give her a second chance. I feel that you have two options:
- have heart to heart chat with her & share what is bothering you. Since you have been friends for many years that shouldn't be a problem.
- stop calling her for a while & wait to see if she will contact you. If she is a true friend she will be concerned about you & contact you.
Good luck! God bless you!
Maybe she was concerned to you at the first place. You can take her out & try to talk at her. If she regrets, try to makle the some other moves. Don't let your frienship fall apart