I have been involved with a guy at my school since about october when we met in saturday school (lol). Anywho,he's a really sweet guy,respectful,funny,and overall great personality.He's also known as one of the cutest guys in school (yes!). Well we've hung out lots of times,and we've kissed. Yesterday he asked me out to the movies,I said yes blah blah blah. Instead of watching the movie,we started kissing(we were in the back row corner). We started touching and groping each other,and then he began kissing my neck down to my chest. I was so into the moment that I didn't even try stopping him when he pulled one of my bra cups down.He started to suck my nipple,it felt good. After the movie finished he walked me home and we said goodbye. My problem is that I feel dirty and I feel he thinks I'm easy. Do you guys think it was trashy of me to let him do that?
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Don't do it again.
I have two questions one was the movie y'all were watching under pg-13 cuz if it was you guys should have kept it pg as well I mean c'mon little kids are at pg movies well maybe not "little kid" but little enough I mean I could imagine y'all saw the part were batman *I turn around* O MY GOD! U just luck no one caught u especially me I would have said something very inappropriate and out of content. My second question was.. Actually forget it all you need to know is make sure u aren't underaged or inffected with anything and to use protection if anything is ganna go down. In my opinion of sex is that it is on of the most primitive, disgusting thing that you'll ever see. But ya know what is beatiful BIRTH just don't try giving that a try yet mkay.
Yes, it makes you look easy. I mean, it's okay if the person has been your boyfriend for a while and knows you. That way, he couldn't possibly look down on you. However, what you did was not uncommon but a little too much and yes, trashy. No one likes to see kids doing sexual things in the cinema. Just don't worry about it and next time be careful.
Simply put, letting him do that does categorize you as easy. As for whether it was trashy, letting somebody do that when you haven't even been dating long is also kind of trashy. I'm not saying you're a whore or anything like that, but there should have been more self control. And you wouldn't happen to be Seventh Day Adventist by any chance, would you?
Honestly I wouldn't worry about it. I have almost the same story (except we didn't go quite as far) and at first I felt really bad. But now (8 months later) I hardly think of it, and I don't really mind. I mean at first I felt like a total slut, but just think in a few months is it really gonna matter? No, if anything it'll just make you a little more fun and rebellious haha :)
Just don't do it again... Now you know :)
Um, I'm sorry, but that kind of is trashy in my opinion. Didn't people see you?
It's been 3 or so months since you've guys been dating, & you're already letting him suck your nipple? I'm sorry, but that's gross, & leads you with a reputation of being easy. Sorry.
Yeah, kinda. But not too trashy. You both need to have some self control to be sure you don't make any mistakes.
Yes.
Yes, especially in public.
Don't let guys do that, try to be alert all the time.
Sounds like hes with you because you are an easy target. You need to make him wait for that stuff because its special! If he likes you - he will wait. If he gets shitty with you because you wont do anything with him - leave him! Teach him to respect your body.
You seem quite easy but next time he does it you do something too otherwise he will be controlling