Boy TROUBLE!?
Im in the 7th grade. I like this guy who sits next to me(assigned seats) every day, 3rd,7th,and 8th period, plus we eat together with some other people at lunch. He is soo hot. but my bf likes him, and he knows that. and being a good friend i asked him out for her...he said no, but he said he likes her a little more than a friend. HE ALWAYS FLIRTS WITH ME IN CLASS AND AT LUNCH...and i really wanna ask him out. But today when he had to be my partner he dreaded it because he didn't wanna make my friend mad...(she didn't) what should i do? should i just forget about him, or flirt with him back and see what happens?
Update:she knows i like him
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He Dreaded being your partner because of the way it will effect your friend?
Hmm, well. He said he 'Didnt want to make her mad'?
Maybe that is a sign that he Does like her, and cares about what she may think.
But 7th grade boys are hard to give advice about.. :)
Well.. If you care about your friend, dont ask him out, at least not yet...
- Talk with him.. When he flirts with you flirt back.
Lower your voice to match his, laugh when he laughs if possible.. Compliment him.. "is that a new shirt? It looks good on you,"
When you are talking lightly touch him.. as If by accident, But then smile when he looks at you- As if you liked it.
Do little things like that.. and see if he responds the same way. He will do some of the same things.. Like tickle you or make physical contact. Compliments and things..
But if he still thinks that being around you and other things will ruin His and your Friends relationship then obvioously he cares more about what she thinks than what happens with you.
If things progress with you and this boy, talk with you friend about why she likes him, and if its just 'one of those things'.
Maybe she will understand if he DOES like you.. and not her?
I'm not so sure..
If you need more help write me.
bla_23
omg! im in like the same situation! this guy likes me and i like him but im bff likes him and so i dont want to go out with him cause my bff would be sad but i still like him! i reallly want to find out what other people think about this cause i was just about to ask a question about my situation. the guy who likes me and i like him asked me out and now he is on hold and idk what to do. i think that you should just keep giving him hints so that he hangs on untill your friend likes some1 else. also talk to your friend thats what i did but practicly she said that she would be sad if i went out with him. so i dont know what to tell you except good luck.
tell you bf and say hes never gonna go outr with him, already said no, and so that means hes open 4 you, hell im in 9th, we can hook up, lol, j/k. idk, you both like him, who ever gets him gets him.. look at it like this, she likes him, you like him, your giving mercy for your freind and not asking him out, she aint giving you mercy, she want him.. so i guess if she isnt willing to give him up and make an agreement neither of you go out with him as long as you gise are BF's, then ask him out..
well, i think that you should tell your friend that you like him and ask her if you can progress with him. if she says it's ok, then it's ok.
but i wouldn't try flirting with him behind her back.
flirt with him back, if your friend is a good friend shell understand, and is it your fault he likes you and not her as much? no.
tell your bf how you feel & if it doesn't bother her, then
go ahead & see what happens.